Safety
If you are in immediate danger
Contact your local emergency services right away, and if you can, tell a person you trust where you are. We deliberately do not list hotline numbers, because an incorrect number in a crisis is worse than none — search for the official service in your country or ask emergency services to connect you.
What the coach will not do
It will not diagnose you, label anyone as abusive or narcissistic, or tell you definitively whether to stay or leave. It will help you think, name patterns and prepare conversations.
When we interrupt the conversation
If a message suggests abuse, coercive control, stalking, threats, self-harm or immediate danger, the coach stops coaching and surfaces a safety response instead.
Abuse is not a compatibility problem
Compatibility tools assume two people who are safe with each other. If that is not true for you, no report can fix it and none of our scores should be used to justify staying.
AI can be wrong
Every AI response carries a persistent notice. Treat outputs as prompts for your own thinking, not as instructions.
Your control
You can delete coach history, journal entries or your whole account at any time from Settings.